feat(accounts): one account across an instance's services (ADR 0016)

halkyon_base runs as the instance's register or as one of its members.
The register keeps the ways in, handles and profiles; members ask it
over HTTP with the instance's shared secret (instanceSecret), and open
sessions of their own for its accounts, under the same account ID.

- AccountsMode from the environment: INSTANCE_MEMBERS on the register,
  ACCOUNT_REGISTER_URL on a member. Learn always holds the register
  (Explore joins the profiles); Todo is a member where it is set.
- AccountRegister: LocalRegister, RemoteRegister, an in-memory one in
  tests. Calls between services on the web server, refused without the
  secret (constant-time compare); a server needing it doesn't start
  without it.
- Deleting an account deletes it everywhere: notices per member kept in
  the deletion's transaction (account_deletion_notice), told at once and
  hourly until confirmed; members prune daily whom the register no longer
  knows, never while it knows none of them or can't be reached.
- Deploy: INSTANCE_SECRET and INSTANCE_MEMBERS in compose and .env.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Signed-off-by: Tizian 「ティツィアーン」 <raisondetredev@pm.me>

apps/learn/halkyon_learn_client/lib/migrations/20261019204112282-deletion-notices/migration.json

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+{
+  "__className__": "serverpod.DatabaseMigration",
+  "actions": [
+    {
+      "__className__": "serverpod.DatabaseMigrationAction",
+      "type": "createTable",
+      "createTable": {
+        "__className__": "serverpod.TableDefinition",
+        "name": "account_deletion_notice",
+        "dartName": "AccountDeletionNotice",
+        "module": "halkyon_base",
+        "schema": "public",
+        "columns": [
+          {
+            "__className__": "serverpod.ColumnDefinition",
+            "name": "id",
+            "fieldName": "id",
+            "columnType": 6,
+            "isNullable": false,
+            "columnDefault": "serial",
+            "dartType": "int?"
+          },
+          {
+            "__className__": "serverpod.ColumnDefinition",
+            "name": "account",
+            "fieldName": "account",
+            "columnType": 7,
+            "isNullable": false,
+            "dartType": "UuidValue"
+          },
+          {
+            "__className__": "serverpod.ColumnDefinition",
+            "name": "member",
+            "fieldName": "member",
+            "columnType": 0,
+            "isNullable": false,
+            "dartType": "String"
+          },
+          {
+            "__className__": "serverpod.ColumnDefinition",
+            "name": "createdAt",
+            "fieldName": "createdAt",
+            "columnType": 4,
+            "isNullable": false,
+            "dartType": "DateTime"
+          },
+          {
+            "__className__": "serverpod.ColumnDefinition",
+            "name": "attempts",
+            "fieldName": "attempts",
+            "columnType": 6,
+            "isNullable": false,
+            "dartType": "int"
+          },
+          {
+            "__className__": "serverpod.ColumnDefinition",
+            "name": "lastAttemptAt",
+            "fieldName": "lastAttemptAt",
+            "columnType": 4,
+            "isNullable": true,
+            "dartType": "DateTime?"
+          }
+        ],
+        "foreignKeys": [],
+        "indexes": [
+          {
+            "__className__": "serverpod.IndexDefinition",
+            "indexName": "account_deletion_notice_idx",
+            "elements": [
+              {
+                "__className__": "serverpod.IndexElementDefinition",
+                "type": 0,
+                "definition": "account"
+              },
+              {
+                "__className__": "serverpod.IndexElementDefinition",
+                "type": 0,
+                "definition": "member"
+              }
+            ],
+            "type": "btree",
+            "isUnique": true,
+            "isPrimary": false
+          }
+        ],
+        "managed": true
+      }
+    }
+  ],
+  "warnings": [],
+  "migrationApiVersion": 1
+}